Remember Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs

topic posted Fri, April 27, 2007 - 7:17 PM by  "Marley" ˚˚...
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Did you know that the number one reason relationships fail is due to money?

Specifically, financial stress -ie. *lack of money*.

No matter how great someone is,
no matter how enlightened they seem to be,
when it comes to Nature, resistance -or denial- is futile.

For those of you savvy with the chakras, you'll get this too.

If you're stuck on survival -ie. the 1st Chakra- there's no
hope of thriving on the next level.

When you're pre-occupied about how your going to make
the rent by the end of the month, and keep your electricity
or phone on, it's naturally inevitable to fall short on your creative
interests.

Priorities are priorities after all, and there's simply no way
around the facts of life.

Think about how often you've been distracted from being
truly present with your partner, much less romantic, because
you're sweating over some bill.

How often have you felt self-conscious because you're in
a lower income bracket than your peers, or afraid to unimpress
some cutie you'd like to engage?

A key word here is Security.

There's a reason Mind/Body is used together -like two sides of
the same coin. That's because they are. If you feel emotionally
depressed, you get physically depleted, and vice-versa.

If you're not feeling financially secure, be assured you'll find you're
not feeling very secure on other levels.

How can you be giving, sexually, financially, or emotionally, if you're
in a perpetual state of desperation, which makes one selfish by necessity?

The saddest part though about this dynamic is that no one wants to see
the truth of this. No one wants to see themself as unable to give as much
energetically or otherwise as their peers and loved ones. Thus they end
up acting out their insecurity unconsciously only to discover growing
alienation in their relationships -and with themselves.

Have you ever noticed someone acting out as "poor me"? Ever notice
what their income and/or relationship to money is? There's a hint.

So just cut it out. *Choose* to not be stuck in survival.
You're not serving yourself or anyone else by being poor.
It's stale and boring. Who needs it?

Have you *ever* heard someone say, "I wish I didn't have so much money"?

Have you ever heard someone say "I have too much love in my life"?

Believe it or not, these two are intimately connected.
And if you work on one, you will inevitably find that the other takes shape in kind.

Part of love requires people skills, communication and self-awareness.
These are learnable things but they're not exactly courses in grade school.

Getting financially free is no different.

You wouldn't ask a miserable lonely person for love and relationship advice would you?

Well just the same, if you're looking to be financially free, you need to find someone
who's got that going on, and get some pointers.

Imagine what the quality of your relationships would be like if you weren't toasted
on your cashflow all the time.

Imagine the feeling of being free to do what you want whenever you want.
That'd feel pretty wonderful wouldn't it?

You know the saying, "misery loves company".

So if you're financially miserable, think about how your relationships would be.
Do you think anyone who was doing really well would want to stick around you long?

If you were trying not to smoke, would you keep hanging around smokers?

If you were alcoholic, would you hang around other alcoholics to stop being one?

Alright then, so just get real.

Stop denying that you're justifying your poor conditions and choose to change them.

Don't daydream about where you'd like to be financially. Create your desired financial
destination and then look squarely at how you're going to get there.

Find a mentor.

Find a vehicle that will get you there.

If your finances are limiting your happiness, and limiting your social life or relationships, and
you're ready to get over all that and take some positive action, then contact me today to find out
what others are using to get free -and live the life of their dreams.
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